Comments on: Dear STC: My Boss Thinks I’m Inexperienced And Incapable! http://shrinkingthecamel.com/2009/12/17/dear-stc-my-boss-thinks-im-inexperienced-and-incapable/ Connecting Business Life with Spiritual Life Sat, 04 Feb 2012 03:08:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: shrinkingthecamel http://shrinkingthecamel.com/2009/12/17/dear-stc-my-boss-thinks-im-inexperienced-and-incapable/#comment-1818 Mon, 21 Dec 2009 01:18:08 +0000 http://shrinkingthecamel.com/?p=2171#comment-1818 Best advice I’ve heard all day.

]]> By: Maureen http://shrinkingthecamel.com/2009/12/17/dear-stc-my-boss-thinks-im-inexperienced-and-incapable/#comment-1813 Fri, 18 Dec 2009 15:26:12 +0000 http://shrinkingthecamel.com/?p=2171#comment-1813 nAncY: Try what’s called mirroring and validating. I found these two techniques to be useful to diffuse potentially explosive issues among employees (in my favorite application of these, I got an employee to back off filing a sexual harassment suit against another employee). If the aggravation is your own: talk a walk. I used to do that when my editors failed to meet their deadlines.

]]> By: Chris Cree http://shrinkingthecamel.com/2009/12/17/dear-stc-my-boss-thinks-im-inexperienced-and-incapable/#comment-1812 Fri, 18 Dec 2009 13:55:48 +0000 http://shrinkingthecamel.com/?p=2171#comment-1812 I learned in the Navy that a little sucking up goes a long way. Most people are too proud to even “appear” to be sucking up. Then of course there are those who go way overboard too.

]]> By: Al http://shrinkingthecamel.com/2009/12/17/dear-stc-my-boss-thinks-im-inexperienced-and-incapable/#comment-1811 Fri, 18 Dec 2009 11:32:40 +0000 http://shrinkingthecamel.com/?p=2171#comment-1811 Brad,

I was wondering what you would think about Meghan getting some advice from hair, makeup, and professional dress consultants that could help her look older and more professional.

just a thought.

]]> By: nancy http://shrinkingthecamel.com/2009/12/17/dear-stc-my-boss-thinks-im-inexperienced-and-incapable/#comment-1805 Fri, 18 Dec 2009 02:59:38 +0000 http://shrinkingthecamel.com/?p=2171#comment-1805 boy, bradley.

i am sure glad you are answering the questions and not me. you give a lot of good advice of things that can be tried and worked on.

i was wondering if you have any good thoughts for avoiding the feelings of aggravation or even what to do with some of those feelings that some on is already having?

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